Faith-centred coaching for women 35 and over and high-achieving women who are ready to date from peace instead of anxiety.
From the author of "I Don't Mind Waiting: The Singles Edition"
Dating again after divorce, loss, or a long single season — wanting to date with dignity, not desperation.
Confident and capable everywhere else — career, faith, family — but unsure how to lead well in matters of the heart.
Our principle: we wait with purpose. We date to marry.
I'm the author of I Don't Mind Waiting: The Singles Edition, and I'm training as a relationship coach. I'm based in London.
I believe how you wait shapes who you become. I stopped waiting from anxiety and started waiting from peace, and I created Waiting Well to walk that road with other women.
You are not behind. You are becoming.
Join the waitlistRe-anchoring your identity and what you are building, before pursuing anything new.
Naming your standards and replacing anxious waiting with discernment.
Dating with boundaries and peace, with a clear next step and a community beside you.
I stopped waiting from anxiety, and started waiting from peace. That shift is what this program is built to help you find too.— Shadé, Founder
3 weeks: Thursdays 13, 20 and 27 May 2027
3 live group sessions on Thursday evenings, 7:30 to 8:45pm UK. Small group of up to 12 women.
Zoom sessions with a short companion workbook each week. Every session is recorded.
A private group chat between sessions
One-to-one time is not included in the taster. A longer programme will follow, and the women who join the taster will be the first to hear about it.
No. Waiting well isn't about age or timing — it's about readiness of heart. This coaching meets you exactly where you are now.
We wait with purpose. We date to marry. We do not coach casual dating or dating for its own sake. We build clarity, standards and peace so that when you date, you date with purpose.
Not at all. "I Don't Mind Waiting" shapes the coaching's foundation, but you don't need to have read it to join.
No. Coaching is forward-focused and action-oriented. If deeper healing work is needed, you'll be encouraged to pair coaching with counselling.
Enrolment opens on Monday 3 May 2027 and closes on Friday 7 May. Join the waitlist to be told first and to be in line for an early-bird place.
A short companion for the season between believing and receiving — three movements, a letter from Shadé, and a practical exercise to help you use this season, not just survive it.
Get it for £8For the first 10 places only. Includes 3 live group sessions, the companion workbook, session recordings and the private group chat.
Everything above, once the early-bird places are taken. Places are limited to 12 women.
Join the waitlist to be first in line for an early-bird place when enrolment opens on 3 May.
Join the waitlist